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Periodically backpage.com will give you advertising discount codes. The best ones are
BPCARES (25 % off till December 30th)
2010THANKS (10 % off upgrades, sponsor ads, and auto re-posts)
(Be sure to Post any Holiday and After Christmas Specials)
Title of your ad can say:
Take back your unwanted gifts and get the one you REALLY wanted.
http://www.backpage.com/28611828
Friday, December 24, 2010
Escort Ad Idea #3
*~*Lonely, Bored and HORNY*~*
Greetings Gentlemen,
Come experience the soft sensual touch of a REAL woman. It’s sure to be a toe curling release of all that pent up tension.
I am a professional and well reviewed Massage Mistress and Escort who practices a combination of massage modalities with Erotic Touch. I am currently accepting new clients but only Gentlemen who are 35 years of age and older. I wish to meet men who appreciate a non rushed experience, and enjoy the company of a full bodied Ebony Goddess.
Hours:
MON- FRI 10am - 2pm
SAT 4pm-11pm
My location is discreet and safe. I offer a shower, clean fluffy towels, fresh linens, unscented body wash and other hygiene supplies as well as bottled water. You may bring a bottle of red wine to share. (St. James Red Velvet).
Please contact me personally for 1on1 personal time.
Ph# (Insert Number)
Email address (Insert Email address)
Website: (Insert Website)
Blog: (Insert Blog and Twitter if you have them)
Reviews: (List your reviews)
*35 and over please*
Greetings Gentlemen,
Come experience the soft sensual touch of a REAL woman. It’s sure to be a toe curling release of all that pent up tension.
I am a professional and well reviewed Massage Mistress and Escort who practices a combination of massage modalities with Erotic Touch. I am currently accepting new clients but only Gentlemen who are 35 years of age and older. I wish to meet men who appreciate a non rushed experience, and enjoy the company of a full bodied Ebony Goddess.
Hours:
MON- FRI 10am - 2pm
SAT 4pm-11pm
My location is discreet and safe. I offer a shower, clean fluffy towels, fresh linens, unscented body wash and other hygiene supplies as well as bottled water. You may bring a bottle of red wine to share. (St. James Red Velvet).
Please contact me personally for 1on1 personal time.
Ph# (Insert Number)
Email address (Insert Email address)
Website: (Insert Website)
Blog: (Insert Blog and Twitter if you have them)
Reviews: (List your reviews)
*35 and over please*
Monday, December 20, 2010
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Alternative Marketing Tools (Blogging, Email Lists, and Newsletters)
Practically every escort that has a website should have some sort of subscription option for their viewers and followers such as newsletters, email lists, and Blogs.
Without one of these you are at the mercy of the review boards, the forums, your ads, and the unpredictable whims of potential clients. As some of you may already be aware of, I am a HUGE fan of blogging and sending weekly Newsletters. It is important that you don’t abuse this option because it can get annoying like spam if you’re not careful.
What I typically like to do with my Newsletters is give information about the industry; warnings, cool places to hang out, and new adult industry trends and news. Then at the end of the newsletter I post my availability for the upcoming week. Make sure that your emails and newsletters are informative and fun. Don’t just post your Ads in your newsletters, which will quickly make readers unsubscribe.
To start building a networking database of email addresses, and this is if you have one of the free sites Rare-Escort or Escortsite.
(Rare-Escort.com Users)
-Log into your admin panel
-Click the Content Tab on the top
-Then click Mailing List tab on the left side panel.
At the top of the page it will tell you how many people have registered for your mailing list.
(Escortsite.com Users)
-Log into your Admin Panel
-Click on the Dashboard Tab
-Click the Community Tab
-Right under the Community Tab is your Members and Subscribers Tabs.
-Send Newsletters to both groups
On both platforms you can only send Newsletters once a week. I send mine every Saturday Morning. Remember to make it informative and useful for your reader. Watch your grammar and spelling, and be safe!
Good Luck
Build your own free site with.
http://escortsite.com/
Create your own Blog.
http://escortblogs.net/
Without one of these you are at the mercy of the review boards, the forums, your ads, and the unpredictable whims of potential clients. As some of you may already be aware of, I am a HUGE fan of blogging and sending weekly Newsletters. It is important that you don’t abuse this option because it can get annoying like spam if you’re not careful.
What I typically like to do with my Newsletters is give information about the industry; warnings, cool places to hang out, and new adult industry trends and news. Then at the end of the newsletter I post my availability for the upcoming week. Make sure that your emails and newsletters are informative and fun. Don’t just post your Ads in your newsletters, which will quickly make readers unsubscribe.
To start building a networking database of email addresses, and this is if you have one of the free sites Rare-Escort or Escortsite.
(Rare-Escort.com Users)
-Log into your admin panel
-Click the Content Tab on the top
-Then click Mailing List tab on the left side panel.
At the top of the page it will tell you how many people have registered for your mailing list.
(Escortsite.com Users)
-Log into your Admin Panel
-Click on the Dashboard Tab
-Click the Community Tab
-Right under the Community Tab is your Members and Subscribers Tabs.
-Send Newsletters to both groups
On both platforms you can only send Newsletters once a week. I send mine every Saturday Morning. Remember to make it informative and useful for your reader. Watch your grammar and spelling, and be safe!
Good Luck
Build your own free site with.
http://escortsite.com/
Create your own Blog.
http://escortblogs.net/
Creating an Etiquette Page for your website.
An Etiquette Page should list rules, behavior, and expectations that your potential clients should follow. Below is a copy of the Etiquette page from my website. Please feel free to copy it to your own website.
Enjoy!
First of all, it's good to keep in mind that Providers are real women. We have outside responsibilities, just like you, so we're not always available at the drop of a hat. The rule of thumb is that the less notice you give us for an appointment, the greater the chances that we won't be able to accommodate you. The more notice you give us, the better we can work with your preferred hours and dates.
Cleanliness is really paramount in the type of service you're going to receive. You MUST make sure that you're freshly showered, wearing deodorant, and have very recently brushed teeth. Most women, myself included, will offer to let you use our shower facilities before we begin our time, and we'll often have mouthwash, mints or gum available there for you to use. Even if you showered that morning, a day in the office or in nervous anticipation of our appointment can take it's toll. We'll be fresh, clean and nice smelling - and you should be, too.
Please be polite. I know this sound like common sense, but it needs to be stressed. If you phone or email and use words like 'whore' or 'hooker', chances are 100% good that we'll have zero interest in meeting you.
Read our websites. I know it's time consuming, but we created them for a reason - to help you know more about us. Almost everything you could ever want to know about is on there, so it will save you asking questions we've answered in detail on our sites already.
No means No - no matter what the question. Asking us to bend the rules we've set up for our own safety and comfort level is rude, intrusive and just plain offensive. Accept it, and move on.
Trying to barter or negotiate our rates is tacky. There are girls out there for every budget, no matter how large or small. If you aren't comfortable with a woman's rates, find one whom you are comfortable with, and book with her, instead. Calling us names, whining, or being aggressive is a great way of making us grateful you can't afford us.
Please be on time - and, if you're running late, call us! Don't just send email, as we might not get it in time. We understand that things come up, and plans change - but it's rude to us and to other clients to simply not show up, or to show up hours late. Be considerate of the fact that many Providers see limited clientele, and a scheduling mishap can ruin our entire day's plans.
Finally, try to relax and have fun! We're here to entertain you, and to make a few hours in your life more pleasant. I understand it can be nerve wracking to meet with a new person, so we'll probably want to sit with you for a moment and try to put you at ease. If there's anything you want to tell us, or any questions you have, feel free to talk to us. We want you to have an experience you'll remember with a smile.
Enjoy!
First of all, it's good to keep in mind that Providers are real women. We have outside responsibilities, just like you, so we're not always available at the drop of a hat. The rule of thumb is that the less notice you give us for an appointment, the greater the chances that we won't be able to accommodate you. The more notice you give us, the better we can work with your preferred hours and dates.
Cleanliness is really paramount in the type of service you're going to receive. You MUST make sure that you're freshly showered, wearing deodorant, and have very recently brushed teeth. Most women, myself included, will offer to let you use our shower facilities before we begin our time, and we'll often have mouthwash, mints or gum available there for you to use. Even if you showered that morning, a day in the office or in nervous anticipation of our appointment can take it's toll. We'll be fresh, clean and nice smelling - and you should be, too.
Please be polite. I know this sound like common sense, but it needs to be stressed. If you phone or email and use words like 'whore' or 'hooker', chances are 100% good that we'll have zero interest in meeting you.
Read our websites. I know it's time consuming, but we created them for a reason - to help you know more about us. Almost everything you could ever want to know about is on there, so it will save you asking questions we've answered in detail on our sites already.
No means No - no matter what the question. Asking us to bend the rules we've set up for our own safety and comfort level is rude, intrusive and just plain offensive. Accept it, and move on.
Trying to barter or negotiate our rates is tacky. There are girls out there for every budget, no matter how large or small. If you aren't comfortable with a woman's rates, find one whom you are comfortable with, and book with her, instead. Calling us names, whining, or being aggressive is a great way of making us grateful you can't afford us.
Please be on time - and, if you're running late, call us! Don't just send email, as we might not get it in time. We understand that things come up, and plans change - but it's rude to us and to other clients to simply not show up, or to show up hours late. Be considerate of the fact that many Providers see limited clientele, and a scheduling mishap can ruin our entire day's plans.
Finally, try to relax and have fun! We're here to entertain you, and to make a few hours in your life more pleasant. I understand it can be nerve wracking to meet with a new person, so we'll probably want to sit with you for a moment and try to put you at ease. If there's anything you want to tell us, or any questions you have, feel free to talk to us. We want you to have an experience you'll remember with a smile.
Staying safe during the Holidays
According to the FBI, right around the Holidays is when the crazies emerge. And the worst thing in the world is being victimized during the Holidays. Here are some general tips to help you stay safe.
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If You’re close enough to use it, do!
2. If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM.
Toss it away from you. Chances are that he is more interested in your Wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse.
RUN LIKE HELL IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS!) The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go.
AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.
a. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO NOT DRIVE OFF, repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as the car crashes bail out and run. It is better than having them find your body in a wooded area a week later.
5 .A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
A.) Be aware: look around you; look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.
B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out.
IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. Always stand near the buttons of the elevator so that you can press the emergency button or alarm if necessary (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; and even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, preferably in a zigzag pattern!
8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic. STOP. It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it's better to be safe than sorry.
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If You’re close enough to use it, do!
2. If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM.
Toss it away from you. Chances are that he is more interested in your Wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse.
RUN LIKE HELL IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS!) The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go.
AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.
a. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO NOT DRIVE OFF, repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as the car crashes bail out and run. It is better than having them find your body in a wooded area a week later.
5 .A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
A.) Be aware: look around you; look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.
B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out.
IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. Always stand near the buttons of the elevator so that you can press the emergency button or alarm if necessary (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; and even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, preferably in a zigzag pattern!
8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic. STOP. It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it's better to be safe than sorry.
Reviews ARE Important!
I’ve seen countless escorts around the internet saying that reviews aren’t important, and yet again here is more rubbish that you should never follow. YES, reviews are important but they will not make or break you. Any escort that says reviews aren’t important either had their share of BAD reviews and became bitter; or they were banned from a particular review board. That’s 90% of the reason why girls start hating reviews.
*Get you some reviews ladies*
As the new girl, this will make a world a difference. But please be aware of the men who will ask for discounts, deals, and more time in exchange for reviews. Believe it or not one of my good regulars did that to me when I first started, but every time a new review went up for me, my phone rang constantly.
Don’t be afraid to ask clients to review you. Keep in mind that not only do reviews give you legitimacy; they also help you gain access to private websites, message boards and forums. Every Escorting Board today that has good advertising available REQUIRES that you have some sort of reviews if you want access.
Your reviews are like business testimonials, but if you don’t want your client to give all the dirty details, kindly let him know that.
But please keep in mind ladies that if you request reviews from clients you MUST make sure that you provide the best service imaginable. Be on time, be polite, dress well, smell good, and have fun. Usually when I’m done with the service I’ll lay with the client and tell him how much of a good time I had, and if he says the same, then I’d kindly ask him for a review. Don’t make a big spectacle out of it. Ask him while the two of you are cuddling (If cuddling is something you do).
You may even send a thank you email saying how much you enjoyed your time with him and have a link to your reviews at the end of the greeting. Always make a good impression with your clients, and when they review you, they will help you make that same good impression for the next batch of potential clients.
*Good Luck*
Below are two of the most recognized review boards in the Country.
*Get you some reviews ladies*
As the new girl, this will make a world a difference. But please be aware of the men who will ask for discounts, deals, and more time in exchange for reviews. Believe it or not one of my good regulars did that to me when I first started, but every time a new review went up for me, my phone rang constantly.
Don’t be afraid to ask clients to review you. Keep in mind that not only do reviews give you legitimacy; they also help you gain access to private websites, message boards and forums. Every Escorting Board today that has good advertising available REQUIRES that you have some sort of reviews if you want access.
Your reviews are like business testimonials, but if you don’t want your client to give all the dirty details, kindly let him know that.
But please keep in mind ladies that if you request reviews from clients you MUST make sure that you provide the best service imaginable. Be on time, be polite, dress well, smell good, and have fun. Usually when I’m done with the service I’ll lay with the client and tell him how much of a good time I had, and if he says the same, then I’d kindly ask him for a review. Don’t make a big spectacle out of it. Ask him while the two of you are cuddling (If cuddling is something you do).
You may even send a thank you email saying how much you enjoyed your time with him and have a link to your reviews at the end of the greeting. Always make a good impression with your clients, and when they review you, they will help you make that same good impression for the next batch of potential clients.
*Good Luck*
Below are two of the most recognized review boards in the Country.
Escort Ad Idea #2
Periodically I will post ad ideas here so that you ladies can get an idea of what to say in your ads. Again, these are ads that I use so you may want to change them up a bit to reflect YOU and your services. All I ask is that you don’t copy them word for word. Use them as a guide, but remember to be creative and HONEST.
Go back to the Terminology post and keep a mental note of them. Escorts that offer GFE (Girl Friend Experience) is highly sought after right now. So if you enjoy kissing, cuddling, and DATY (Go look up DATY in the Terminology post) then be sure to put that you offer GFE in your ads.
*NOTE*
Because Backpage.com has major restrictions now, you may want to scale the ad down to something less risqué and wordy. Play around with the ad and see what works best for you.
[Ad Idea #2]
Are you ready for some hot, wet, sticky fun with a sexually insatiable, super busty BBW? Come and play with me, and let's blow each others minds… among other things.
Whether your tastes run to slow and sensual massage, wild and uninhibited erotic fun, or a little bit of each, I promise you one heck of a good time.
I'm offering incalls in the Florissant area.
Please email or call for more details, or to arrange a rendezvous. See my website for more details, photos, reviews, small erotic movie clips, my very popular blog, and other tidbits of information that’s sure to keep you tantalized.
(My Hours):
Mon - Fri 10am - 2pm
Sat and Sun 4pm - 11pm
By Appt Only
I do prescreen.....
Please schedule your appt at:
(Website Here)
Ph# (Phone Number Here)
Website: (Website here)
Blog: (Blog Here)
Reviews from TER: (Reviews Here)
Reviews from Escort.com: (Reviews Here)
*35 and over please* (Optional)
Go back to the Terminology post and keep a mental note of them. Escorts that offer GFE (Girl Friend Experience) is highly sought after right now. So if you enjoy kissing, cuddling, and DATY (Go look up DATY in the Terminology post) then be sure to put that you offer GFE in your ads.
*NOTE*
Because Backpage.com has major restrictions now, you may want to scale the ad down to something less risqué and wordy. Play around with the ad and see what works best for you.
[Ad Idea #2]
Are you ready for some hot, wet, sticky fun with a sexually insatiable, super busty BBW? Come and play with me, and let's blow each others minds… among other things.
Whether your tastes run to slow and sensual massage, wild and uninhibited erotic fun, or a little bit of each, I promise you one heck of a good time.
I'm offering incalls in the Florissant area.
Please email or call for more details, or to arrange a rendezvous. See my website for more details, photos, reviews, small erotic movie clips, my very popular blog, and other tidbits of information that’s sure to keep you tantalized.
(My Hours):
Mon - Fri 10am - 2pm
Sat and Sun 4pm - 11pm
By Appt Only
I do prescreen.....
Please schedule your appt at:
(Website Here)
Ph# (Phone Number Here)
Website: (Website here)
Blog: (Blog Here)
Reviews from TER: (Reviews Here)
Reviews from Escort.com: (Reviews Here)
*35 and over please* (Optional)
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Become a Creature of Habit and Routine
One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned in the Adult Industry is to become a creature of habit and routine. And what I mean by that is create a daily routine and stick to it constantly. Example:
*From Monday-Friday*
-I wake at 6am
-I make coffee
-I check and answer emails
-I see which clients are on my schedule for the week
-I post ads
-I blog
-I check and return all phone messages and book future dates
-I Clean and straighten my incall for my appointments that day
-I bathe, primp, powder, and get ready.
-I provide the service to the client and collect the fee
-I kiss the client goodbye and kindly ask for a review
-I deposit the money at my bank, and then I go home.
This was my routine EVERY. SINGE. DAY!
I recommend that you don’t live 24 hours a day in hooker mode. Set a daily schedule; mine was Monday-Friday 10am-2pm and Saturdays from 4pm-9pm. When office hours are closed, so should your legs.
Of course my individual rendezvous with clients broke the monotony of my routine, but keeping a set routine kept me organized and sane. Keeping good notes is also a good idea. Purchasing a small notebook, planner, or diary can help you keep appointments organized. PLEASE make sure to guard that notebook with your life because that notebook is your livelihood, and it contains VERY private information about your clients.
Many escorts will advise against keeping notes of your client’s information but that’s absurd. You NEED some kind of record of his information for references, special requests and needs, and what I call “Get that Mother Fucker” notes, just in case you need to turn him into police for foolish behavior such as; violence, stalking, and theft.
And YES ladies, call the police if you’re ever victimized by a client. Prostitute or no Prostitute; he has no right to violate you. I will do a post later about what to do if you’re ever arrested or victimized.
Be Safe ladies!
*From Monday-Friday*
-I wake at 6am
-I make coffee
-I check and answer emails
-I see which clients are on my schedule for the week
-I post ads
-I blog
-I check and return all phone messages and book future dates
-I Clean and straighten my incall for my appointments that day
-I bathe, primp, powder, and get ready.
-I provide the service to the client and collect the fee
-I kiss the client goodbye and kindly ask for a review
-I deposit the money at my bank, and then I go home.
This was my routine EVERY. SINGE. DAY!
I recommend that you don’t live 24 hours a day in hooker mode. Set a daily schedule; mine was Monday-Friday 10am-2pm and Saturdays from 4pm-9pm. When office hours are closed, so should your legs.
Of course my individual rendezvous with clients broke the monotony of my routine, but keeping a set routine kept me organized and sane. Keeping good notes is also a good idea. Purchasing a small notebook, planner, or diary can help you keep appointments organized. PLEASE make sure to guard that notebook with your life because that notebook is your livelihood, and it contains VERY private information about your clients.
Many escorts will advise against keeping notes of your client’s information but that’s absurd. You NEED some kind of record of his information for references, special requests and needs, and what I call “Get that Mother Fucker” notes, just in case you need to turn him into police for foolish behavior such as; violence, stalking, and theft.
And YES ladies, call the police if you’re ever victimized by a client. Prostitute or no Prostitute; he has no right to violate you. I will do a post later about what to do if you’re ever arrested or victimized.
Be Safe ladies!
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